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Trish Suvino D'Anna posted a condolence
Thursday, November 9, 2023
Hey John, I have been thinking about you a lot, Especially these last few days. I guess because Thanksgiving is coming up. It just is not the same anymore. I was looking through the ShopRite flyer and saw the cranberries. I am thinking about making it fresh this year. Yours was amazing! How can I really make you proud? I am taking very good care of my health. I use oxygen whenever I feel that I need it. I put a very nice picture of you smiling on the passenger side of my old Honda Accord. I had it placed a bit higher but, I wasn't able to really see you. You have to know how much I miss you. I go for a walk if I feel the need to cry. It upsets Louis because he can not fix it for me. I will have Daddy soon for a visit. I hound him about his health all of the time. I know that he is up there in age so, I guess that nagging thought gets worse every day that passes. I don't know what happens when we pass. I have a theory and it is quite beautiful. Just like you. Nobody understands how close we were(are). I have to be here for Daddy and for Louis. I have done and seen just about everything a person could want. I have kept up with my writing. Believe me people will know that I was on this Earth. I am going to watch the very depressing news. I know what you would say and do about all of this. You are my Brother and always my best friend. Meet me by The Rainbow Bridge. When it is my time. I will write to you again for sure. Just incase anyone else reads this, I do not blame anyone for your passing at such a young age. I adore you. I must write something for Lauraine soon. I have not forgotten about her and their whole family. Love you! Trish
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Trish Suvino-D'Anna posted a condolence
Sunday, May 28, 2023
John, I posted this on 5/27/2023. It's been 16 years since the good Lord needed to take you. Not a day goes by that I do not recall an adventure that we went through. You know that you were always my best friend. I was grateful to have the chance to take care of you when you had the hernia operation. Moving into an apartment together. It was the best decision I ever made. 1997 was the best year of my life. It was extremely full of adventure. I wish that we never added the 3rd roommate. We didn't need the money. I would've been so happy with just the two of us. We had the feeling of freedom! We were happy going out together to Houlihans , a movie and coffee at Dunkin Donuts. I love you forever and can't wait until you come for me. I will write again very soon! Your Sister, Trish
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Carlos and Nicolas Jorge posted a condolence
Saturday, May 27, 2023
Hey John,
I don't get much time for myself. My job is taking a lot of my time. Every year we get together and light candles for you.
Remember when I was having a hard time finding a life partner? Well I met him. You would have liked him a lot. We met at my job! His name is Nicholas. We had a commitment ceremony 3 years ago. I will think of great memories and post them for you. Happy 16th anniversary to you.
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Trish Suvino-D'Anna posted a condolence
Saturday, May 27, 2023
John, You know that I am missing you terribly especially today. I need to keep all of our memories close to my heart. Especially the tine you had your hernia operation. It really was more than a joy taking care of you. Plus, it was like having your best friend with you for 10 days. It was my pleasure and my honor to become your roommate in 1997. You were able to accept Ouiji and Spanx as your own. You gave me more in my life to make it so special. All that I have to do is think of one of a million wonderful memories to put me into a better frame of mind. I am so sorry that I brought a third roommate into our already beautiful life. Fishing, going to Houlihans and a movie and coffee was better than ANY date that I or You could have had. You are the Angel that looks over me. I know that you are the driving force behind me when I need to do something. I will write to you much more today. I have noticed that Cousin John has written beautiful poems to you. He was the only person to tell me that they loved me that day. He gave me a sympathy card as well. It meant so much to me because he was the only one who was kind enough to realize that I needed comfort too. You are still my Brother and until you meet me to welcome me to Heaven you will always will be.
Oh, by the way your friend Carlos married Nick. He seems very happy that he finally accepted himself. You would like Nick too! Tall, good-looking and he is successful!
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Trish Suvino-D'Anna posted a condolence
Sunday, May 14, 2023
I lost everything that I just wrote. I wanted to wish you a Happy 57th Birthday. God Bless You my Beautiful Brother. I will write again very soon. I was, I am, and I always will be proud to call you my Brother! I adore you! Your Sister, Trish Suvino-D'Anna
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Trish Suvino D'Anna posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 14, 2023
My Johnny, I wanted to wish you a Happy Valentine's Day. I was thinking about that time that I didn't have one. I came over the house and there was a huge box for me! It was a beautiful heart with ruffles and roses. You left a note saying" Tish, you are too pretty not to have a Valentine". I carried that box to different apartments that I moved into. I no longer have it, but, I still have the best Brother. Remember to meet us at The Rainbow Bridge. I love you with all of my heart. I miss you terribly. Your Sister, Trish
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Trish Suvino-D'Anna posted a condolence
Sunday, August 21, 2022
Johnny! Daddy is visiting me for a whole week! We are eating downstairs with Louis. Daddy treats Louis like a 2nd son. This makes me very happy! It's taken me a long time to find a Husband who treats me like a princess. I miss you so very much. Nobody that knows me doesn't know all about you. No other Brother in this world has a Sister who loves him as much as I do you! I will keep trying to make Daddy happy and loved. You make sure that you keep loving us! I will write again soon. Love you SO VERY MUCH! Your Sister, Trish Suvino-D'Anna
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Daddy posted a condolence
Sunday, May 15, 2022
John, your sister is helping me do this. I want you to know how proud of you that you turned your whole life around. When you were little we would walk and hold my hand. The women used to say how beautiful you were. I told them you were my son not my daughter. They said it was a shame. You were both my reason for getting out of bed every day. You are still my pride and joy. Love, Dad
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Trish Suvino-D'Anna posted a condolence
Saturday, May 14, 2022
John, I never knew that there were two different sites to post on. Today is your 56th Earth Birthday! I talk about you so much that I feel like you are right near me. You would love my Husband Louis! Horses, cards, AC, fishing and crabbing! He does not drink or party. He loves your sister. I miss you so much! I honestly feel like you are with me when I need you the most. I was writing some memories on the other site. I talk to your pictures all of the time. I don't care who hears me. By talking about you, makes me feel better. Somedays are not as easy. Those are the days that I grieve in private. You are the best person that I know. I am the luckiest person in the world. I have a Brother who is also my best friend! How many people can really mean that? When it is my time, I know that you will be waiting for me with Daddy. Nothing can happen to me especially now. Daddy and Louis would be overcome with grief. I would rather hurt than to hurt them. Besides, I stand firmly on my beliefs about when we go to Heaven. John, Cousin John said such beautiful things about you on the other site. He is a very good man. I wish the other family members knew me the way you know me. I will write to you again very soon. Remember, Daddy talks about you to me. Please, comfort him when he needs it. My Brother and also my best friend! All of my love, Trish
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Thursday, November 25, 2021
Happy Thanksgiving John. I keep thinking about our Thanksgiving in 1997. It was absolutely perfect! I had to work the early shift that day. When I came home you had cleaned the whole apartment including the litter boxes. You had made us a fantastic dinner! You made your famous cranberry sauce. I was completely surprised. I had never felt more grateful than I did that day. I miss you so much that my heart aches. I assume that you can see what is going on right now. I am asking you for strength to get me through this. I love you John. Like no other sister has loved her brother. Have a great day. I will write again soon. Love you always, Trish
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Saturday, November 20, 2021
Hi John, guess what is coming up? Thanksgiving. In 1997 you gave me the best day of my life. I had to work the morning shift at Houlihans in Seacaucus. When I came home, you had the entire apartment cleaned! You even cleaned out the litter boxes. You made a complete Thanksgiving dinner all by yourself! You made your homemade cranberry sauce. Then, for desert you asked Daddy and his wife to come over for coffee and dessert. It was a perfect day/night. I remember after you went to sleep, I said to myself " Oh my God! How very lucky am I?". I still is tattooed into my brain. Then when you had your hernia operation. I insisted that you stay at my apartment so that I could take care of you. I told you it would be better if you stayed with me because you wouldn't have to go upstairs to use the bathroom. It was my pleasure calling you from work and bringing you home dinner! Basically, I have 2 wonderful beautiful experiences that I was lucky enough to share with you. John? Can you please do me 2 favors? Please keep Daddy healthy and safe. The other is for Louis and his pain and his health. Until I write again, I adore you! Love you always, Trish
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 8, 2021
John! I miss you terribly! Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. Not only are you my Brother, you are my best friend! I was thinking about the Thanksgiving of 1997. I came home from work and you had cooked dinner, cleaned the whole house including the litter box! I've said it before and I will say it again. If you were not my Brother, I would still want to know you because you are the best person that I know! I still mean that! John? When it's mine or Daddy's time. Please, be the one waiting for us. I could really use a hug right now. I adore you, love your Sister, Trish
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Saturday, May 22, 2021
John, your Aniversary is in 5 days. I guess that you know that I am sick. I'm afraid of leaving this world without making sure that our Father is taken care of. I've lost all of my friends. Especially You. You and I were so happy when we moved in together in Hackensack. That Thanksgiving in 97 was the best day of my life. John? I'm not sure what my purpose on this Earth is. I'm afraid that I won't figure it out in time. I try to be a good person but, I don't believe that is my purpose. Can I ask a favor? Can you ask God to heal my lungs? I'm finding it very hard to breathe. Plus, I have no idea what Daddy is doing. He must be afraid or something. He knows that I will lose my housing but, he's being stubborn. He is afraid that he is going to be left alone. Please, I am begging you. Give him a wake up call before it's too late for me. Please. John, one of the things I really regret is not taking you to Sagovias. That and I wish that I never brought a third party into our household. I also regret going to Disney World on or around your Birthday. The reason why we went in May is because it was what they call " off season". That's the only reason. I'm sorry for leaving you alone when I was out " living it up". I would have been happy just the 2 of us living together for the rest of our lives. I regret you know who. I wish that I could erase that part of my life. I would have been happier if I never ever brought in that other person into our home. That's my biggest regret. I truly believe that you would still be alive right now. I love and miss you so very much. I will write very soon. John? I love you! Trish
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Monday, May 27, 2019
John, 12 years ago today. I think and speak about you every single day. I miss you so much. People don't understand what it's like to lose your other half. I know where you are, and will see you when it is my time. Please, save me a place on the pier that you fish from. I adore you , and I always will. I just wish all siblings would be grateful for each other. Until..... Your Sister, Trish
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Thursday, March 21, 2019
Johnny, I think about you all of the time. I released balloons on your anniversaries. I swear, they went so high that I couldn't see them anymore. I know you are with me. I feel your presence every day. I KNOW you will be there to greet me when my time is right. I talk about you all of the time. It hurts, but, you are worth it. Until I see you again, your Sister, Trish
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 15, 2019
It's been 10 years. I talk to your picture EVERY SINGLE DAY! Tomorrow will be 3 whole years that I haven't taken a single Tylenol PM pill! I remember you telling me that it was so bad for my liver. So, of course I am really thinking about you right now. I tried on your blue striped shirt today. It fits! John, I know you can't tell me when I'll see you again. But, if you could just give me an idea of what it's like up there where you are. Please? I NEED to know. I love you more than you will ever know. I adore you my beautiful baby Brother. I'm starting to tear up. I have to go now. I will be talking about you every single day. You know where to find me. Just make sure YOU come to get me. Love you more than life itself, Trish
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
It's October 12 2016. I think and talk about you everyday. I wish that you could meet my Fiancee Louis! He reminds me of you. You two have a lot in common. My 9 month anniversary of my COMPLETE SOBRIETY is on the 16 th of this month! I wish you could see me now. Not even an ASPIRIN tablet . I know that you didn't mean to hurt us. But, there will ALWAYS be an empty space in my heart that only you can fill. I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!! Your Sister forever, Patricia Suvino
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Trish Suvino posted a condolence
Monday, January 25, 2016
I miss you SO much that my heart aches! I love you, Trish
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