Saturday, January 30, 2021
Carolyn will always hold a special place in our hearts. We are so very sorry to hear of Carolyn’s passing.
We loved living across the street from Carolyn when were in NJ. My boys would love walking to her house to see all of the fun seasonal decorations she put out on the lawn. She was like our neighborhood mom, always looking out for everyone and making sure our neighborhood was spotless. She often came over and we sat on my porch and talked. She was so down to earth and kind and her presence was calming to me. She had twins too and we bonded over that and she often consoled me, especially when she saw that my boys were “a handful.” Sometimes she would stay on my porch with my children and watch them while I ran in the house to finish dinner or get a few things done. She always gave the boys thoughtful gifts, many of which we still have and cherish. Even when we moved out of state, she would think of us and mail the boys a little something. She had a love for animals and owls and my son Jack now loves owls too. Carolyn had such a gentle smile and was always generous and humorous. She called me (and probably everyone) “honey” and I loved that about her. She also loved to try new things and travel, including her senior bus trips. I loved that about her too. Each year, we would have a neighborhood yard sale and she would always come by to help and of course bring her smile and humor. One year, she even dressed in her cow costume. I have a recent voicemail from her. She called me with such sincere excitement to tell me how much she loved the book I wrote, “Hello Washcloth.” She was so proud. It meant so much coming from her - an educator and mentor. Carolyn always wore a beautiful flower in her hair. A perfect symbol of how light hearted and young at heart she was. In the picture shown, she is wearing a flower I got for her while I was in Hawaii back in 2012. It’s said that giving a lei is a great way to show friendship, love or to celebrate or honor someone. I will forever honor our friendship and I, and surely everyone else who knew her, will always celebrate her loving, generous and gentle spirit. We love you Carolyn and will miss you!
